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Keeping it clean: Chasing after dog and kids

February 8th, 2010, 11:51 am by Michelle Reese

I had two crazy events happen at my house the last few days… of course they revolved around the children and the family pet.
Both were those situations where if you have 45 minutes to get somewhere and you think, “Hey, I’ll be early,” it doesn’t happen. Something - anything - will occupies that 45 minutes.
One morning last week the kids were arguing over a toy. I finally said, “Time to go” and headed to the car. I ran back into the house to grab the lunches we left on the counter. That’s when I heard SCREAMING from outside. I ran out to hear my son yell, “SHE HAS A BOOGER!” Sure enough, my daughter had sneezed and had snot all down her face and on her shirt.
I said, “Next time, just give her a Kleenex!”
After I dropped my son off at school, my daughter and I walked out to the car. She has a gag reflex - a bad one. She got a whiff of the local farm - and started gagging. She held her nose and ran to the car. She said, “OPEN THE DOOR!” I got it opened, but not in time. She got to her seat, still gagging, and threw up all over herself and me. O well, she needed to change her shirt anyway.
We ran home. I threw her in the bath and our clothes in the laundry.  UGH.
She got to school 15 minutes late. I got to work half an hour late.
The fiasco continued yesterday. We got home from church and started putting clothes away. My daughter ran from her room yelling, “Jazzie threw up.” Ends up my dog had an accident in my daughter’s room.
I started cleaning up the mess. I heard from “Mommy it still smells.”
Yup, she’d stepped in it. And she was sitting on my bed. YUCK!
I grabbed the bedding, threw it downstairs and finished cleaning her room. In my haste, I tossed the gross paper towels in the toilet - and clogged it up.
Once a childless co-worker said, “Sounds like children are gross.”
Well, I’m not going to argue that after this weekend. There’s never a dull moment with kids.

‘Operation sleep’ appears to be (somewhat) working

February 5th, 2010, 2:41 pm by Michelle Reese

About a month ago I wrote about how we’ve had some sleeping issues in our home - as in children NOT sleeping! After weekend away with my mom (who was exposed to my daughter’s nighttime rantings), it was time to take action.

We don’t know why she does this, but for several months my 5-year-old has cried out in her sleep. Sometimes it’s loud enough that I hear her down the hall. It may simply be, “I want my toy back,” or “Are we there yet?” But other times she just yells, “Mommy!”

On Sunday, we started “Operation sleep.” Here’s what I did:

I first purchased a CD of ocean sounds. There’s not music. It’s just the crashing and rolling of waves on a beach. Each night this week I’ve put that on prior to starting our ritual of reading books.

Then, I started putting “magic lotion” on my kids’ feet at night. In reality, it’s Vicks Vapor Rub. It’s served two purposes this week. First, we’ve all been a bit congested. But second, I tell my kids it will help them sleep.

The last thing I do is leave a water bottle in the bedroom for both of them. I’ve also back and forth with the night light. No conclusions there.

The results haven’t been too bad. While my daughter has woken up at night, she’s not screaming anymore. I hear pitter patter little feet scampering down the hall to my room and she quietly crawls in bed next to me and falls quickly back to sleep. I’m hoping that, too, shall pass. But right now, it’s a much welcome improvement from the yelling.

Half day or full day: The great kindergarten debate

January 24th, 2010, 3:36 pm by Michelle Reese

Earlier this month, I wrote a story about Gov. Jan Brewer’s new budget proposal that includes eliminating state support of full-day kindergarten. Under legislation passed last year, school districts could still provide full-day kindergarten, either by charging tuition or by funding it locally through the money they do receive.

A little history lesson: Full-day kindergarten funded by state funds has been in play in Arizona just a few years. I believe my son, now 7, was in the first class to receive that benefit.

Since my story has run, and in discussions with parents in the past, I know there are several parents out there who are NOT in favor of full-day kindergarten. There is at least one charter school group that only offers half-day kindergarten. In fact, its operator said it saw an INCREASE in enrollment when school districts started offering full-day options.

School districts now are required to offer half-day options if parents want it. The vast majority of parents, based on numbers reviewed by the Tribune, choose the full-day option.

Proponents of full-day kindergarten said they’ve seen a jump in the educational ability of first- through third-graders since Arizona took this on.

Opponents believe children should have the chance to be children and to keep play a major part of the day.

When my son entered kindergarten, if memory serves right, I was working full time. I know as I searched for a school for him, I sought out programs that had a full-time option. It was partly because I worked full-time, but also because I thought he was ready for it. He had spent two years in a half-day preschool program.

Now, it’s my daughter’s turn. She is currently in a full-day prekindergarten program. She was an early talker. It wasn’t just one or two words that came out when she started to speak, it was full sentences. We felt she would benefit from a full-day program.

So with the state considering eliminating full-day kindergarten funding, and the other restraints on school districts, I realize there is the possibility our school district could choose to charge tuition for the other half of the day.

I feel parents can make the decision on what’s best for their child. Even in schools that don’t have a “true” half-day option today, parents are able – and they do – to pick up their children before or after lunch.

For our little girl, who is already in a full-day program, I don’t think she would benefit from going to a half-day program. And given the fact that I work full-time - should a change happen in our district, I imagine I’ll be one of the ones who opt for the full-time tuition plan.

Diaper drive needs help

January 21st, 2010, 11:04 am by Michelle Reese

56169_newbornI got this message through e-mail and thought I would pass it along: The 11th Annual Baby Diaper Drive is underway with a goal to collect 100,000 diapers and raise $50,000 for emergency funds. The Baby Diaper Drive is collecting diapers and wipes to help Homeward Bound families who are working hard to get back on their feet. So far, 39,220 diapers and $36,742 for emergency funds have been collected. The Baby Diaper Drive will run through January 30, 2010, collecting diapers and funds to help keep babies and toddlers dry, healthy and smiling!
“We have really noticed a huge difference in giving this year,” said Eileen Rogers, Baby Diaper Drive Founder. “The sluggish economy has impacted giving from companies and individuals who have supported the drive in the past by writing a check or hosting a diaper drive. This year we have seen good support from children and students – the children are doing their part! We need the grown-ups – parents and grandparents – to help too!”
To help, go to www.babydrive.org.

Music soothes dinner time blues

January 20th, 2010, 5:15 pm by Michelle Reese

Last week I discovered something I should have been doing for years: turning on the radio when preparing dinner.
After a long day of shuffling kids to schools, work and getting them again, this mommy can sometimes be grouchy.
At least once a week I have a night meeting to cover. At least once a week the kids have an activity.
So that leaves only three nights a week to come home and relax - and I don’t want to start it in a bad mood. But sometimes, the idea of getting dinner on the table, homework done, dishes and laundry is more than I can handle.
But last week, I turned on the radio in the kitchen. And as I danced around cooking pasta and giving math and reading tips, I noticed the house was much calmer.
And I was in a better mood.
My husband came home and noted, “This is a great day. Country music is playing, mommy is dancing and ….” well, he didn’t get to finish because his two children interrupted him.
But I got his idea and his message.
So every night we’ve been home since then, the radio immediately gets turned on.
My son rolls his eyes as I dance his food to the table, but I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Sleep, please come this way

January 19th, 2010, 4:43 pm by Michelle Reese

I know at some point in the last year my daughter slept soundly in her own bed. And if she did wake up, she could crawl into my bed without me hardly noticing.
That isn’t the case anymore.
I can’t think back to when the change happened, but it’s more than evident now.
Nightly she cries out in her sleep or tosses about and yells.
And it wakes me up, even if she is in her own room down the hall. I don’t go to her room unless it goes on and on. And then I only go because her brother sleeps in there with her and I don’t want him to wake up.
So now, I’m going to try essential oils. I heard there is a nightlight at IKEA that glows stars onto the ceiling.
I’m going to buy a CD of ocean sounds. I may stick star stickers above her bed.
I’m going to ask my husband to take a break from the flooring (we’re still in the middle of a two-year remodeling project), and put together the bunkbed we bought for them. Maybe that would help since they insist on being in the same room at night.
Yes, I’m getting cranky about this. But hopefully, one of these ideas – or a combination of all of them – will bring some peace to the Reese house at night.

Is it time for another season of sports?

January 14th, 2010, 10:21 am by Michelle Reese

The spring sports registration reminder arrived in my e-mail yesterday.
I confess, I did look at the dates and the schedule. Registration is the first part of February. Games would run through May.
I also found myself looking at the gymnastics schedule this week, wondering if my overly eager kids - frustrated with their progress - would benefit from two nights a week at the gym.
But I just signed my son up for his after-school art class. He would be in an after-school program anyway because my husband and I both work full-time, but this gives him a different activity once a week. And he loves it.
He wanted to do a Saturday LEGO building class, but already knowing we’re going to be gone at least TWO Saturdays in the next few weeks, I held off.
It’s not that I want to drive myself crazy driving from here to there - I did that in the fall with soccer practices for my daughter. She missed about half the practices and half the games.
Knowing my record, I hesitate to do another sport again right now. The kids have gym once a week and I typically have a meeting once a week for work. Plus, this time of year is crazy busy at work for my husband.
So that only leaves THREE nights during the workweek that I get to pick them up, come home and spend time with them.
The problem: They complain about being bored. The second I arrived at my daughter’s school last night she piped up: “What are we doing tonight?” I told her, “We’re going home, eating dinner, taking baths, doing homework, reading books and going to bed!”
She didn’t like that answer.
Eventually, they both settled in at home. We even played a Wii game - usually not something I allow on school nights.
I love home time. Even though it’s a bit crazy and sometimes it seems it would be easier to let the the kids run around somewhere until they collapse into bed, I really want them to enjoy relaxing and family time, also.
I think the e-mail from sports will go unanswered for now.
The way he’s been talking about football, I’m sure my son and my husband will be busy with that in the fall.
I like this article from Scholastic. It suggests the number and type of activities  for children, based on age level.

Juggling the work schedule

January 12th, 2010, 1:31 pm by Michelle Reese

A friend sent me a post from one mom who wrote about six ways working parents can get more time with their kids. I’ve done a few of these - actually, more than a few. When I had to be in the office one Saturday when a project launched, I brought the kids along. Computer savvy, they had access to Disney and Lego Web sites while I looked over stories and talked to co-workers.
It didn’t last too long, but it was fun.
And as an education reporter, I’m often in schools. When my daughter was younger I dragged her with me to early morning interviews with students and teachers. She was great entertainment and often broke the ice. Now that she’s in school herself, it’s not as easy to do. But that hasn’t stopped me from bringing her to a school board meeting or two when daddy has to work late.
And I definitely have found the “start work late, end work late” idea to come in handy now and then. When I worked the New Year’s Day shift - which included writing the baby New Year story - I started at home very early. My daughter played in the office while I took calls from hospitals and nurses. Then we had breakfast and I took them to grandma’s before heading out for my next assignment.
Afterward, my husband got them and we enjoyed a family dinner with friends (my hubby also worked that day) before putting them to bed.
I finished my story about 10:45 that night.
It’s a juggling act, but fortunately, I’m in a job position I love where I can make a 40-hour workweek work with kids.

‘Mom, where’s the snow?’

January 12th, 2010, 11:35 am by Michelle Reese

snowAs my kids and I drove along the I-10 this weekend, my son saw the mountains and asked, “Mom, where’s the snow?”

It was the first of many such “snow” conversations in our house this weekend. I don’t know what got into the three other members of the family, but as I enjoyed the sunshine, they had their minds on a white winter.

First came that comment from my 7-year-old. I went on to explain that while it’s snowing pretty much everywhere else in the country, we won’t be seeing snow here in the Valley. “When are we going to the cabin? Is there snow?” he asked. I knew that was coming. We do have plans to visit my folks’ cabin up north, but even then, I’m not sure it is far enough north for snow.

My daughter spoke up a few hours later. “Mom, I want to go sledding.” WHAT? Where did that come from? It’s been AT LEAST two years since we’ve gone sledding and she was so young, I’m surprised she remembers it.

Finally, some commercial - or weather report - must have prompted the last comment from my husband. “Wouldn’t it be great to live somewhere where we can go out our door and ski.” AHAHAH! Actually, I did live in a ski town for a VERY SHORT period. It was a mild winter. It was fun to ski every few days, but really, when you’re working and helping take care of family (my brothers are quite a few years younger than I am), it’s not as often as you think. And when there’s a blizzard, well, you’re luck to leave the house.

Snow is fun. I love to ski. I love to VISIT it. And obviously, I need to get my family up to the mountains this year.

Bugs, slugs and other creepy things

January 7th, 2010, 10:52 am by Michelle Reese

My daughter came home from school yesterday and explained to me that bugs are “bad.” “They’re gross, creepy and ants are the worst.”

I just laughed out loud. I’ve TRIED not to create a girly-girl, freaked out by creatures. But I’m also amazed still with her language ability. I swear, she sounds more like someone turning 12 than 5!

I told her how some bugs eat other bugs and that’s a good thing. And bugs - like bees - help make flowers. “But scorpions are bad,” she said. Well, I won’t disagree with that.

When we see a bug at home, I point out how cool looking it is before we shoo it outside (I wouldn’t do that if it was a poisonious one, I’m sure). But I guess girls will be girls, no matter the lessons in climbing trees and mud pies.

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