I attended my son’s IEP (individual education plan) meeting this morning. He is in his second year of kindergarten. Since he turned 3, he has been on an IEP in our school district for speech/language services.
We were running late this morning to get there. I told my son - now 6 - several times, “Go get your socks. Get your backpack. Find your shoes. We have to go.”
Ok, this - in speech/language talk - is a four-component direction.
I learned during the meeting that one of the receptive language issues the school is working on with him is - you guessed it - four-component directions.
I guess that would explain why he didn’t finish all those without me walking him through it. I forget this sometimes (more often than I care to admit). Instead, I get upset, look at the clock and yell: I’m walking out the door now. Let’s go!
I apologized to my son before we even got to the meeting. I did feel bad for not assisting him more when he said, “I don’t know where my shoes are.” Eventually, it took both of us to find them - in my bedroom of all things.
Then we went to the meeting and I was reminded what I need to do to be a better parent, and a good role model. Good thing we have these meetings. I know they’re not directly for parenting, but they help!
My son will move on to first grade next year, and continue to receive speech/language services for receptive and expressive language issues as well as pronunciation assistance.
And we’ve made a new direction in our house: Shoes go by the front door when we walk in. Hopefully, that will help.
Archive for March, 2009Teachers sometimes teach the parent, tooMarch 31st, 2009, 12:09 pm by Michelle ReeseWhat would be easier: an earlier or later school start time?March 26th, 2009, 11:09 am by Michelle ReeseMy school district is debating changes to school start times. The argument is that high school students do better when they start later in the day, since most of them stay up later at night. My children are not in high school yet, but this will still have an impact on them. That’s because a change in high school start times could mean a change in elementary and junior high start times to adjust bus schedules. In my case, plan A calls for a 7:45 a.m. start time and plan B calls for a 9 a.m. start time. Right now, we’re at about 8:35. For us, I could see it work both ways. During the winter, when it’s dark in the morning, my kids tend to sleep in. There have been at least three times this year, since January, that my son has been late to school because we just couldn’t get it all together and out the door. With that in mind, a 9 a.m. start time would work just fine. However, it would get me to work later, and my daughter’s day care absolutely ends at 5:30 p.m. I would be pushing it to get a full 8 hours of work in each day unless I just stay tied to my desk (though I write this as I’m eating lunch at my desk). An earlier time may be a struggle at first, but I think it’s the better option for my family - and perhaps others. That’s because most days - the kids arise quite early. I don’t know how, but in the summer they’re up between 5:30 and 6:30 a.m. Today, it was 6:45. When that happens, we would have little problem getting to school by 7:45 a.m. if I ignored the dishes, the pick up in the kitchen and prepping dinner for that night (all of which usually delay me in the morning). And, truth be told, if they get up at 6:30, but don’t have to be at school until 9 a.m., what on earth are they going to do to keep busy? They’ll pull out toys and books and colors and be distracted and we would likely end up late anyway! A decision is a few weeks away. But I’ve put my opinion out there for the earlier time. Wiki scholarship deadline approachingMarch 26th, 2009, 11:08 am by Michelle ReeseI received this notice today: Visit http://wikianswers.com/static/scholarship_program.html to earn a chance for a $1,000 scholarship. Here are some of the details: * The WikiAnswers.com Scholarship Program plans to award twenty scholarships valued at $1,000 each for use by recipients. Life is a tangled mess sometimesMarch 25th, 2009, 11:39 am by Michelle ReeseI’m at my wit’s end with my daughter’s hair. She has long hair that at one point was very curly. It’s now somewhat wavy. Son returns to school, mom is back at workMarch 23rd, 2009, 9:34 am by Michelle ReeseForgive my absence! My 6-year-old son had his tonsils removed and I took a week off work following the surgery. He did amazing. He slept through the night the last two nights - the first time in a long time that has happened. His post-surgery instructions meant he had to lay low for a week. We stocked up on a few new Lego sets and family came to visit. We rented movies. Just this past weekend we ventured outside. He flew a kite. We have had that kite in the garage for more than a year and it was finally put to good use. I sat in the waiting room a week ago with my mom during the nearly 45-minute procedure. Was I a nervous wreck? Well, yes! But when we were invited back to the recovery room, he was sleeping soundly. A few long minutes later he came out of it and just looked at us for a while. Once they gave him the first dose of his oral pain medicine (he received some via his IV), he spoke. He even smiled. I couldn’t believe it. It took about five hours before we had a room, but he let us read books to him and when the nurse brought the recovery room DVD player over (a Mickey Mouse one no less), he really perked up. Kudos to the hospital staff. He didn’t want to leave the next day (it may have had something to do with the fact that we don’t have cable and in the hospital, he had access to the Cartoon Network). When I told him last night he was returning to school, he even said “Yes!” Spring break is over. He’s ready to see some friends. Surgery countdown is onMarch 13th, 2009, 4:01 pm by Michelle ReeseWell, my son is a bit more anxious about his surgery next week. He’s getting his tonsils and adenoids out. A sleep study showed what my husband and I have known for years - he doesn’t sleep at night. He suffers from sleep apnea and wakes at least twice AN HOUR. Remodel continues: Bathrooms doneMarch 12th, 2009, 3:59 pm by Michelle ReeseMy husband came down from the upstairs last night triumphant. One illness down, one surgery to goMarch 11th, 2009, 4:38 pm by Michelle ReeseMy house has been through the wringer the last few weeks. At one point it smelled like disinfectant, Vicks vapor rub and, I hate to say it, vomit all at once. How come my 4-year-old sounds like she’s 12?March 10th, 2009, 1:36 pm by Michelle ReeseOk, so let me confess first: I argued today with a 4-year-old about our family computer. She is home sick – well, banned from daycare until her belly is better (which, I am happy to say, will likely be by evening!). So I’m working from home. Usually, I’m pretty successful. Today, she’s a bit more demanding. As my husband said, “She’s a social butterfly and you’re not being social.” Yea, no kidding! I broke out the stickers, the coloring, the movies. She even brought out all her clothes from her “summer” box to “try on” to make sure they fit. That one was her idea. But after a bit, well, she wants the computer. My kids like the online coloring and a few kid-friendly sites. “I’ll give you five drinks then it’s my turn.” She took five sips of her juice pouch. “Mom, are you done yet? I’ll eat five crackers.” She ate five crackers. “Mom! It’s my turn.” I finally looked at her, aghast, and said, “I am not arguing with a 4-year-old about the computer. I’m almost done then I can do an interview with paper and pen.” Two seconds later: “Are you done yet?” Oh, and the best part, “Mom, just figure it out.” AHH!!! She’s 4! Really! I swear. She talks like a 12-year-old sometimes, but she’s 4! I’m amazed how her mind works. Just now – after eating lunch – she said, “I’ll pick out a few movies to watch.” She came upstairs with 12 in her arms. At least THAT will keep her busy for awhile. “Which one do you want to watch?” she just asked me, “Star Wars? Star Wars? Star Wars?” Guess I’ll be working with “Star Wars” in the background! Memories of Barbie on her birthdayMarch 9th, 2009, 12:40 pm by Michelle Reese
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