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Seasons come, seasons go

November 3rd, 2009, 5:33 pm by Michelle Reese

As a working mom, I’ve come full circle.

When my son was born, I returned to work six weeks later, full time. Eight months later, I left to freelance.

I became a part-time, working-at-home mom. I about pulled my hair out. I’ve never felt so stressed in my life.

Before that year was over, I returned to work - one day in the office and one day at home. My son was in preschool. My daughter was in my belly.

And so the cycle went after my daughter’s birth: I worked in the office a few days. I worked from home a few days. I eventually returned to full-time employment.

And now, in a few months, the cycle will start again.

As many of you have read here, the Tribune will close its doors Dec. 31.

Many people have asked about my plans: I don’t know. But seasons come and go, and apparently this season in my life is coming to a close.

I would like to devote more time to my son’s school, which doesn’t have classroom aides this year. I would like to write a children’s book.

I plan to blog - I’ll let you know when I can where that blog will be found - because I am a writer. It’s who I am. It’s what I do. And I love it - whether or not anyone is reading.

But for the next two months, I’ll continue to share my mommyhood with you. And I hope you find a little smile in reading it each day.

Trip planning sometimes includes post-trip chores

October 9th, 2009, 12:06 pm by Michelle Reese

kidsbeachVa-ca-tion!
Why does it seem that in the days leading up to vacation, 10,000 things need to be done?
I mean really - and I say this to my fellow moms - must the house be clean? The laundry done? The refrigerator stocked for our return?
No! All that REALLY needs to be done - in my case anyway - is the selection of a few outfits and bathing suits, followed by putting those clothes and two kids in the car. My husband has to work and isn’t joining us this trip out, so even the refrigerator doesn’t need to be stocked.
But before we depart for the beach and grandpa, I imagine I’ll do all of the above. Why? Because that way when I get back, I won’t have to do it.
We aren’t leaving right away and it’s only a short trip. And before we go we have gymnastics and football to attend to.
Somewhere between now and then, the laundry will get done, the house will be picked up and yes, I’ll probably get groceries. The kids will do their chores. They Legos on the floor will be put into boxes and the library books will be returned.
See, there’s a VERY GOOD reason I don’t leave on trips on the first day of vacation: I want to relax while I’m gone. If I realize all this awaits my return, I may not enjoy it as much.
Or maybe there’s just some brain nerve that can’t be turned off until my To-Do list is complete.

Mommy’s back

October 8th, 2009, 11:53 am by Michelle Reese

s7300563I spent the last few days at a conference in Washington, D.C. Not only did I plan my trip, I confess I also put in place events for my husband and kids in my absence. Example: Sunday a good friend came over with his two kids for our weekly “football watching/playdate.” And with my husband coaching football, one night I arranged a babysitter and the other night his mom picked up the kids from school.

OK, so I didn’t have it planned out perfectly. My husband said our friends showed up and our children weren’t home yet from their grandparents. After a few phone calls, I was told, every one was home and the kids broke out the hundreds of Legos onto the loft/playroom floor.

I missed them, absolutely. And it was a bit surreal to realize that for three days I didn’t have to cook, gather up backpacks, plan lunches or even pick up a single toy.

And while it was work - a very good conference held by the Education Writers Association - it was also a break for me.

I got up each morning with only myself to care for. I saw a cousin who lives in D.C. I even got to go see Smithsonian museums - the way only I would do it (quick tours in and out of a couple museums plus the National Archives). If I’d had kids with me, it would have been a much slower pace.

But for me - it was perfect.

The house is a wreck (four kids and a Lego playdate will do that). We ordered take out last night for dinner. And I probably won’t get laundry started until… well, I don’t know when it’s going to get done. But it’s very nice to be home. Still ringing in my ears is my daughter’s call of ”Mommy!” after she crawled in bed and found me there. And my son’s long embrace will keep me going throughout today I have no doubt.

Online advice site for moms

September 28th, 2009, 12:22 pm by Michelle Reese

I found a new online resource for moms (well, new to me!). It’s called Mamapedia. I just spent a few minutes browsing through it. Users can post questions (such as, “How do I keep a house with five children clean?”) and other users give advice.
It was fairly easy to use. There are some areas that require registration, but it looked like you could search through reader/user content easily without doing that.  Anyone who has the time might find fun and useful ideas at this Web site.

Surgery countdown is on

March 13th, 2009, 4:01 pm by Michelle Reese

Well, my son is a bit more anxious about his surgery next week. He’s getting his tonsils and adenoids out. A sleep study showed what my husband and I have known for years - he doesn’t sleep at night. He suffers from sleep apnea and wakes at least twice AN HOUR.
So the ENT scheduled his surgery and since telling my son about it he’s had one main question: Do I have to get a shot?
Well, I told him, no and yes. It’s not a shot. But it is a poke. I figured they would give him an IV. So I didn’t want to lie!
I got great news from the hospital today - they’re going to knock my son out before putting in the IV for the surgery. He will have to keep the IV in overnight, but I think he will be able to handle that. In the meantime, my husband and I are stocking up on a few new Lego sets to keep him busy while he recovers.

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